The Singles Room

This room is for single people in North London who want to connect with other singles in a more relaxed and human way.

The focus is not fast dating, endless swiping, or trying to impress strangers. It’s simply a space to chat, hang out, join events, and get familiar with people over time through repeated interaction and shared experiences.

Being single in your 30s+ can come with a particular kind of freedom, but also a particular kind of loneliness. You may have more space to meet new people, explore new places, and build new connections, while also finding that many existing friends are busy with partners, children, family routines, or long-established social circles. This room gives that stage of life its own social space, where people can spend time with others who understand that context without needing to explain it.

Instead of skipping the summer picnic because everyone you know is going with their partner or children, suggest one here and go with people in the same life stage. Instead of spending Valentine’s Day pretending it is just another evening, turn it into a dinner, film night, or relaxed group hangout with other singles. Instead of avoiding singles events because all your friends are already partnered, find others here who might want to go with you. And when going out is not realistic, the room can still be used to create connection from home. No partner to debrief the week with on a cold, rainy Friday night? Start an end-of-week video call where people share highs, lows, and weekend plans. Living alone, feeling too poorly to go out, while friends are busy with their own lives and responsibilities? Arrange a funny dating stories video call and spend the evening laughing with others who understand the same stage of life.

This is not a matching service, and there is no guarantee of gender balance or romantic outcomes. The aim is simply to create a more natural social environment where connection has space to grow over time instead of being forced from the start.