The Connecting Rooms is a free, North London based WhatsApp community for people in their 30s and 40s to connect with others in distinct life contexts. Many people at this stage gain clarity about who they are and what they value, but that clarity can make it harder to find friendships and relationships that feel genuine in everyday social spaces.
This community aims to close that gap through independent, purpose-built rooms, each shaped around a specific circumstance or intention, and supported by clear rules and tag-based processes that make it easier to meet the right people, interact respectfully, and build familiarity over time.
Explore the rooms, read the details, and join the one that fits you.
The tag system and community expectations apply across all rooms.
If you know someone in North London (30s to 40s) who would benefit, share the community with them.
Post occasionally, reply when you can, and welcome new members. A few consistent voices makes the rooms feel alive.
Invite friends who match the room intent and will respect the structure, tags, and culture.
Use tags properly, keep messages readable, and model the tone you want others to follow.
Report rule breaches or broken call links quickly so culture stays intact and friction stays low.
If you notice a recurring problem or a missing tag or process, share a clear suggestion with an admin.